MIXED SIGNAL – this one hell of an emotion. I bet all of us, in one way or another, already experienced this crazy thing. Some may think that it doesn’t exist since it’s just all about perspective. However, for some, they really do take signals seriously. Dangerous as it may seem, but I’ll share with you ten ways to deal with mixed and f*cked up signals.
1. Keep Your Cool
Don’t just give in! Keep your cool and weigh things. Don’t settle for just that – you’ll soon meet a guy who won’t play with your feelings
2. Don’t Assume/Jump To Conclusions
Yep, here we go again with the expectations. As the saying goes, “Expectation is the root of all heartache“, William Shakespeare is damn right. You still don’t have a concrete basis of what you and the guy’s real score. Probe more, and don’t just jump to conclusions. You don’t want to realize that you’re solely the one who’s sailing the ship.
3. Don’t Contribute to the Confusion
If you really wanna know what’s going on, then take a step back. It’s better that you test the waters first to figure out if there could be more to this than meets the eye.
4. Never Over-analyze
Most of the time, it’s best to quit thinking too much. Though it’s just natural for us to be scared of what will happen if we don’t prepare ourselves, over-analyzing just twist things around, makes us worry and makes everything much worse than it actually is. Apply #1 (Keep your cool) and #3 (Don’t Jump To Conclusions).
5. Directly Address the Issue
You just don’t wanna rot in that situation. Go talk to the guy! Though it’s too straightforward, it would really help if you will also acknowledge what’s happening. Always remember though, you are not falling for it, but you’re just there to do your part in clarifying the real score. It’s never a right time to directly address the issue, so don’t prolong the agony and talk it over!
6. Know When to Walk Away
Just like unhealthy relationships, don’t beat yourself up about dealing with mixed signals. If your gut is telling you that something is off, listen to your intuition and walk away. If you don’t think you can get something positive with what’s happening between the two of you, it may not be worth having.
7. Remember your Personal Worth
Dealing with mixed signals can be totally draining. Life is full of potential and it’s no fun if you spend it doubting about what’s happening between the two of you. Take pride in all you have to offer. If he/she can’t see it, then it’s time you take a step back and admire who you are and all you have yet to be. In God’s perfect time, you’ll find the man who will preciously take care of your emotions. Hang in there!
8. Be More Productive!
Don’t dwell on it! Even if you guys don’t have your sh*t together, you can still enjoy life! Be productive, and your perspective will mirror the ones in movies. Keep your eye on the prize, know your self-worth and just do your thing!
9. Just Do Your Thing
Why did he send that signal in the first place? Yes, girl! Always remember that he won’t ignite the spark if he did not see something in you. Improve yourself. Sooner or later, you will no longer receive mixed signals because he’ll be giving you the world – big time.
10. Love Yourself
Loving yourself will make you realize what you deserve. Everything just has its own timing. Do yourself a favor and just love yourself right now, because as you do, more love will come to you in ways you may have never realized. Always be the love you never received.
Jones Catherine 💋